Haamly DCM
Consent-based phone and messaging.
Consent-based messaging & calls
Strangers can’t text you. Strangers can’t call you. People can reach you only after you approve the connection — and calls need a separate yes every time.
Phone-number sign-in • Having your number is never enough to reach you.
Haamly DCM is a consent-based phone and messaging app: connections unlock messages, while calls stay permission-based.
Not connected
Can't message you. Can't call you.
Connected
Can message. Calls still need approval.
The problem
Anyone who gets your number can text you and call you whenever they want. That means spam, robocalls, scams, and interruptions you never agreed to.
Once someone has your number, they can message you directly without your permission.
Your phone rings for strangers, robocalls, and spam at any hour. You answer first, decide later.
You block numbers one by one, after they've already reached you. DCM flips the default before contact.
The core idea
Being connected and being callable are two separate decisions. You control both.
Layer 1 — Connection
No connection means no messages and no calls — nothing gets through. A connection has to be requested and mutually approved before anyone can reach you.
Layer 2 — Call
Being connected lets someone message you — it does not mean they can ring your phone. Calls are a separate permission, and by default every call needs your approval.
How it works
Reaching someone on DCM is a deliberate, two-step act — not the default.
To reach someone, you send a connection request. Until it's accepted, you can't message or call them.
A connection only exists when both people agree. Either side can decline, and until approval, no messages or calls get through.
Once connected, you can message each other. Messaging is open between connected people.
By default, every call asks for your approval before your phone rings. You decide call-by-call who gets through.
Call approval modes
Set a mode per connection. Calls only ring through on your terms.
The default. Their call request appears first. Your phone only rings after you approve.
A whitelist for the people you trust most. Their calls ring without asking each time.
They can’t call you. You can keep messaging on, or disconnect completely.
Always in your control
A connection lasts only as long as you both want it to.
Either side can end a connection. When you disconnect, messaging and calling stop both ways — and they go back to not being able to reach you at all.
If someone misbehaves, block them so they can never request you again, and report abuse so we can act. The decision is always yours, and it's instant.
Trust & privacy
Your phone belongs to you, and so does your attention.
Use your phone number to sign in and find people you know. Haamly does not expose your number publicly, and having your number is never enough to message or call you.
Connections are made through DCM, and you can disconnect a connection at any time.
Plain English: nobody reaches you unless you let them, calls always need their own yes, and you can change your mind at any time.
For businesses
Businesses can use Haamly like everyone else. Verified business profiles are coming for companies that want customers to know who is contacting them — without ever bypassing user approval.
Coming later
Open it only to the people you choose — and let calls in one yes at a time.
Get started with Haamly DCMPhone-number sign-in • No connection. No messages. No calls.